Breaking Up with Dating Apps: Finding Connection Beyond the Swipe

Dating apps promised to revolutionise romance, but for many, they’ve turned into a maze of mismatches, ghosting, and emotional fatigue. As The New York Post reports in its look at Gen Z’s latest dating trend, “Freak Matching” piece, users are leaning into quirky, mismatched pairings — a stark departure from the meaningful connections they were hoping for. While some embrace this playful chaos, many are left wondering: is it time to swipe left on dating apps altogether?

The impact of technology on relationships runs deeper than just quirky trends. In a sobering piece, The New York Times explores how technology fosters loneliness, showing that while we’re more connected than ever, we’re increasingly detached from authentic interaction. With their gamified approach to love, dating apps exemplify this perfectly — fueling comparison and disconnection instead of fostering genuine connections.

Then there’s the cost — not just emotional, but financial. According to The Guardian, modern dating comes with a hefty price tag, from subscription fees to elaborate first dates. For many, the return on investment just isn’t adding up.

Perhaps this is why a shift toward intentional dating is taking root. As CBS News highlights in its feature on “slowmance” and intentional dating, people are beginning to prioritise meaningful, slower-paced connections over fleeting matches. This movement underscores a collective craving for something more substantial — relationships built on trust, respect, and shared experiences.

But is it even possible to find depth in a space designed for surface-level attraction? Slate’s piece on dating apps’ gamification raises questions about whether the swipe culture has created more harm than good, encouraging shallow engagement over meaningful relationships.

At Get Out, we believe there’s a better way. Our platform isn’t about hunting for hookups or the thrill of the match. It’s about building a community where meaningful connections can thrive — whether that’s through friendships, shared passions, or even the occasional romantic spark. With a strict no-sex-pest policy and a focus on values like respect and engagement, we’re here to create something different.

Let’s leave the ghosting, swiping, and freak matching behind. It’s time to prioritise community, connection, and genuine care. Ready to join us? Together, we’re redefining what connecting in a digital world means.