Getting Comfortable Being Uncomfortable
Getting comfortable being uncomfortable isn’t about chasing discomfort for the sake of it—it’s about learning to value clarity over approval, purpose over performance, and choosing a quieter kind of growth. In this honest reflection, Brodie shares what sobriety, solitude, and slower success have taught him about building Get Out—and why the hard path might just be the right one.
Loneliness at Work: Why Queer People Feel It More, and What We Can Do
Loneliness at work is real — and for LGBTQIA+ people, it can be even more isolating. From invisible pressures to "be less gay" to the health impacts of feeling unseen, this story explores why workplace connection matters, and what we can do to build it. Backed by data, lived experience, and some real talk.
How to Spot Manipulation (and Stay Grounded) This Election Season
Ever been accused of being the problem after you called one out? That might be DARVO — a psychological manipulation tactic where abusers deny, attack, and reverse the roles of victim and offender. As the election heats up, so does the emotional warfare. Here's how to spot it, stop it, and protect your peace — especially if you're queer.
Reclaiming Solitude: How Being Alone Helped Me Find Connection Again
We often confuse solitude with loneliness — and run from both. But in a noisy, hyperconnected world, learning to sit in silence might just be the key to feeling truly seen. This piece explores how stepping back from distraction, performance, and constant connection helped me rediscover a deeper sense of self — and, unexpectedly, build more meaningful relationships.
Let Go, Lean In: How Change, Curiosity, and Meaningful Rest Can Save Us
We cling to what we know — even when it’s making us miserable. But what if letting go was the beginning of real peace? This piece explores how resisting change, ignoring rest, and avoiding discomfort keeps us stuck — and how leaning into curiosity, presence, and meaningful connection could be the way forward.
Nostalgia for Something You've Never Had: Why We're Longing for Connection Offline
There’s a growing ache in our hyperconnected world—a nostalgia for moments that were never ours. Eye contact. Shared laughter. A spark not filtered through a screen. But what we’re really missing isn’t the past. It’s real connection. Offline. Unfiltered. Human.
Trans Day of Visibility: Standing Together for Trans Lives
Trans Day of Visibility (TDOV) isn’t just about recognition—it’s about resilience, activism, and the fight for trans rights worldwide. As attacks on trans and gender-diverse communities escalate, visibility alone is not enough. It’s time to take action, stand in solidarity, and ensure trans people are not just seen but supported.
So… What Do You Actually Do?
We’re more than our job titles. So why is “What do you do?” still the go-to question? In a world obsessed with productivity, it’s time we reconnected with the things that actually bring us joy—and found our people along the way.
We’ve Been Here Before: When Fear Comes for the Queer Community
There’s a particular kind of silence that follows a warning. Not the kind that’s empty, but the kind that hums with memory, with grief, with fight. As anti-queer rhetoric surges, we’re reminded: we’ve been here before. And we know exactly how to respond.
Do We Still Need Gay Bars? Or Have Dating Apps Replaced Them?
We don’t need gay bars anymore—we have Grindr." When I heard a younger gay guy say this in Sydney, it hit me in a way I wasn’t expecting. Have LGBTQIA+ spaces really become redundant, or have we just changed how we connect? With Gen Z socialising differently, dating less, and feeling lonelier than ever, what does this mean for the future of our community spaces? And if gay bars disappear, what do we lose?
From Ketamine to Connection — My Journey from Escaping to Embracing Life
Once, I chased every possible way to escape my own life — alcohol, party drugs, even ketamine. Now, two years sober, I’ve discovered the ultimate hack isn’t found in a pill or a lab. It’s found in showing up for your life and your community, fully present.
The Fine Line of Vulnerability: How Much is Too Much?
Vulnerability is essential, but where’s the line between real connection and oversharing? In a world of curated trauma posts and performative sadness, it’s easy to mistake engagement for genuine support. Get Out was born from a need for something real—meaningful connection beyond dating apps, social validation, and loneliness. Here’s why that matters more than ever.
DEI Isn’t About Favouritism — It’s About Fairness. So Why Are We Still Having This Conversation?
As companies quietly back away from their diversity, equity and inclusion commitments, Get Out asks the tough question: When did fairness become a threat, and why are we still explaining that inclusion makes us all stronger?
Beyond the Mirror: Why We Need to Break Free from the Clone Wars
On a recent trip to Sydney, I couldn’t help but notice something — every guy looked like they’d been rolled off the same production line. Stubble, muscles, cropped shirts, and white sneakers. When did standing out become so terrifying? And what are we losing when we trade individuality for the illusion of fitting in?
Free to Be: Are We More Inclusive, or More Divided?
As the LGBTQIA+ community gathers to celebrate Mardi Gras under the theme Free to Be, we’re asking the tough questions — are we truly becoming more inclusive, or is our community quietly fracturing? In a changing political landscape, our unity matters now more than ever.
Breaking Free from Dating Apps: It’s time to Choose Real Community
Dating apps were supposed to make connection easier, but instead, they left me feeling unseen, frustrated, and more alone than ever. I realised they weren’t designed for love—they were designed to keep us swiping. So, I left. And what I found beyond the screen changed everything. This is about reclaiming connection, choosing real community, and investing in relationships that truly matter.
The 'Ick' Factor: What It Says About Us (and Whether We Can Overcome It)
We’ve all felt it—that sudden, gut-level repulsion that turns attraction into absolute no-go territory. But is the ick really about the other person, or does it say more about us? Maybe it’s not just a dealbreaker but a mirror, reflecting our own fears, expectations, and discomfort with intimacy. What if we could move past it?
Finding Confidence and Connection in a World That Won’t Slow Down
Confidence isn’t something you’re born with — it’s something you build. And in a world that won’t slow down, balancing connection, self-assurance, and social energy is more important than ever. How do we create meaningful relationships without burning out? It starts with rethinking confidence, reclaiming third spaces, and understanding the limits of social energy.
Stronger, Fitter, Wiser: Training Smarter As We Age
Getting older doesn’t mean slowing down — it means training smarter. As I approach 40, I’ve learned that recovery, mobility, and community are just as important as the workouts themselves. Injuries have taught me hard lessons, but they’ve also given me insights into how to train efficiently and sustainably. Whether you’re looking to maintain strength, prevent injuries, or just stay active for years to come, this is what I’ve learned (and what the research says), about keeping your body at its best beyond your so-called prime.
Building Better Friendships in 2025: Connection Takes Effort
Friendship in adulthood isn’t effortless — it takes time, intention, and a little creativity. As our lives evolve, so do our friendships, but making meaningful connections in 2025 is still possible. Here’s how to nurture relationships that truly matter.